It may not be easy and it might not even work, but if you don't try then you will never know...right?
You also need to understand that some relationships are just not meant to be, and if that is the case with yours - then don't even waste your time and effort.
Sounds tough to hear...but let's be realistic.
Instead, look elsewhere for comfort and a new beginning. However, the main objective here is to get back with your ex girlfriend.
So how is this done?
First, you need to be in control of your emotions. This is not an easy one right now, since emotions are obviously running high for both of you. It is difficult to try and focus when one minute you are angry and the next filled with grief.
It will require a conscious effort to control your emotions, but if you stay focused then you have the opportunity to prove yourself.
Don't even think about retaliation if you want to get back with her. Most guys retaliate after a break up and this definitely will make things worse than they already are. You don't need this.
Jealousy will do nothing for her to want to be with you again, so don't even go there. If anything, making her jealous will cause her to mistrust you and it will push her away from you even more.
Also, you want to give your ex the time and space she needs. So avoid contacting her, especially right after the break up.
This is probably one of the most difficult things to do, but it is something you must do. It gives her a chance to miss you. Until she misses you, she won't want anything to do with you.
You do want to get out and about. Staying home will do nothing but allow your emotions to fester. You will just worry and wonder what she is up to. These won't be happy thoughts. Don't stay lonely. Instead, get out with your friends.
If you want advice on how to approach her again and where she's at with things in her head, then talk to her friends (if they agree to talk to you). You should come across as genuinely regretful.
The more information you can gather on how your ex feels about you and your relationship, the better you can plan your approach.
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