If you want your ex girlfriend back, try this easy trick.

To get her back you want to do what works for you first.

This is where you have to decide if you really want to be with her and if she is worth pursuing. Is it HER you really miss, or the IDEA of being in a relationship?

Always go about things by being REAL with yourself. Don't hide behind your ego or think that doing the opposite of your true self will work for you. It won't.

Until you can sort out what it is you really want, you're not ready to begin going after her.

Let's assume that you have given the above a green light. And it is HER you really want back in your life.

Because you are the one that wants her back more than she wants you. And she frankly might not want anything to do with you at this point. Then you have to go about things a bit differently then if she was begging for you back. You have to do what works for her.

If she says she wants space, give her space. If she says she doesn't want to talk to you again, don't contact her.

The magic in this is that she will expect you to act one way, but you are doing another. This will pique her curiosity. She's been thinking that you are right there waiting for her. But when she can't predict your behavior, she will get worried. This will cause her to wonder about you. And that is the first step to getting her interested in you again.